Today we’ll take a break from finance to discuss a tangent of equal life import: finding your tribe.Picture if you will a Californian transplanted to Cambridge, Massachusetts in the autumn of 2003. The only L.L. he’s ever heard of is Cool J, not Bean. He sports flannel instead of tweed, and is completely disoriented by the local Emergency Department attire …
Too Much
My wife runs a side hustle that has been in full swing all summer, and which despite being mostly a word of mouth endeavor has evolved over a decade into a full-time job. On top of this, she works one clinical day shift per week in the ED to maintain her skills. My 10 hour shift yesterday turned into a …
The Unconventional Life
A recent New Yorker article summarized the three stages of the American immigrant experience: First Generation: work hardscrabble jobs, sacrifice for children’s education Second Generation: academic achievers pursue professional careers in medicine, law, finance Third Generation: take Improv classes I found this a concise way of capturing the internal tensions we all struggle with to some degree: on the one …
Cultivating Growth Mindset
Freshman year at Stanford had been a humbling experience. Everyone around me, it seemed, was smarter, more experienced, more accomplished than I was. Shawn Green was a personable guy in my dorm – and the only frosh I knew getting a $725,000 signing bonus as a first-round draft pick for the Toronto Blue Jays. Our dorm also claimed the new …
Does The Future Frighten You?
Last night, in a mood of playful optimism, I asked my wife what she thought the next decade might bring our way. She remained elusive, and qualified her non-answer with her own version of of the spit-over-your-shoulder superstitions that my grandmother (who believed in witches) might have engaged in when I was a child. I tried to explore the source …





